Application Guide

How to Apply for Director of Philanthropy (Major Gifts)

at Room to Grow

🏢 About Room to Grow

Room to Grow stands out for its unique strengths-based program that partners with families during the critical early years (ages 0-3), offering personalized support and resources to nurture children's growth and development. Operating in New York and Boston with a passionate team of 40+, the organization directly impacts family well-being and early childhood outcomes, making it a mission-driven workplace where your fundraising efforts translate into tangible community change.

About This Role

As Director of Philanthropy, you will lead Room to Grow's major gift strategy and execution, managing a portfolio of 100-125 high-net-worth individuals and family foundations. This role is impactful because you will drive revenue growth ($5K+ gifts) to sustain and expand the program, while also serving as an advisor to the CEO and Board on high-value prospects and fundraising engagement, directly shaping the organization's future.

💡 A Day in the Life

A typical day might involve reviewing your donor portfolio and prioritizing outreach to 3-5 high-net-worth individuals or family foundations, followed by a strategy meeting with the CEO to discuss upcoming board engagement. You could then attend a networking event in NYC to represent Room to Grow, and end the day by updating Salesforce with meeting notes and tracking progress toward your $100K new revenue goal.

🎯 Who Room to Grow Is Looking For

  • A senior-level advancement professional with a proven track record in driving fundraising strategy and results, ideally in a nonprofit focused on early childhood, family services, or social impact.
  • A frontline fundraiser who has personally secured and stewarded gifts in the $5K-$100K+ range, with experience managing a portfolio of 100+ major donors and exceeding revenue targets.
  • A collaborative leader who has successfully partnered with executive leaders (CEO) and supported a Board of Directors in fundraising, including board recruitment and engagement.
  • A strategic thinker with deep knowledge of advancement operations, including pipeline management, performance tracking, and CRM systems (Salesforce preferred), who can build and diversify a donor pipeline across regional markets.

📝 Tips for Applying to Room to Grow

1

In your resume and cover letter, quantify your fundraising achievements with specific dollar amounts and growth percentages, especially for gifts in the $5K-$100K+ range.

2

Highlight any experience you have with family foundations or high-net-worth individuals in the New York/Boston area, as the role focuses on these regional markets.

3

Emphasize your experience with Salesforce or similar CRM systems, as pipeline management is critical; mention any reporting or data analysis you've done to track performance.

4

Showcase your ability to work with executive leadership and boards by providing examples of how you've advised CEOs or recruited board members in past roles.

5

Tailor your application to reflect Room to Grow's strengths-based, family-centered mission; mention your passion for early childhood development or family support programs.

✉️ What to Emphasize in Your Cover Letter

["Your personal commitment to early childhood development and family empowerment, aligning with Room to Grow's mission and strengths-based approach.", 'Specific examples of how you have built and executed major gift strategies that resulted in new revenue (mention at least $100K in new revenue if possible).', 'Your experience advising executive leaders and boards, demonstrating your ability to serve as a strategic partner to the CEO and Board.', 'Your familiarity with the NYC philanthropic community and your network of high-net-worth individuals or family foundations that could be leveraged for Room to Grow.']

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🔍 Research Before Applying

To stand out, make sure you've researched:

  • Review Room to Grow's website and annual reports to understand their program model, impact metrics, and current funding sources (individuals, foundations, etc.).
  • Research recent news or press releases about Room to Grow to understand their public profile and any recent expansions or initiatives in New York/Boston.
  • Look into the backgrounds of the CEO and Board members to understand their fundraising networks and how you could support them.
  • Familiarize yourself with the landscape of early childhood nonprofits in NYC and Boston to identify potential partnership or donor opportunities.
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💬 Prepare for These Interview Topics

Based on this role, you may be asked about:

1 How would you approach building a major gift pipeline from scratch in a new regional market (e.g., expanding beyond NYC to other areas)?
2 Describe a time you successfully secured a six-figure gift from a new donor. What was your strategy and how did you steward them?
3 How would you work with the CEO and Board to identify and engage high-net-worth prospects for both fundraising and board recruitment?
4 What metrics would you use to track the success of your major gift program, and how would you report progress to leadership?
5 Why are you passionate about early childhood development, and how does Room to Grow's unique program resonate with you personally?
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⚠️ Common Mistakes to Avoid

  • Don't submit a generic cover letter that doesn't mention Room to Grow's specific mission or program; personalize it to show you understand their strengths-based approach.
  • Avoid focusing solely on your past achievements without connecting them to the role's requirements, especially the need to build a pipeline and secure new revenue.
  • Don't underestimate the importance of CRM proficiency; if you lack Salesforce experience, highlight transferable skills with other systems and your willingness to learn.

📅 Application Timeline

This position is open until filled. However, we recommend applying as soon as possible as roles at mission-driven organizations tend to fill quickly.

Typical hiring timeline:

1

Application Review

1-2 weeks

2

Initial Screening

Phone call or written assessment

3

Interviews

1-2 rounds, usually virtual

Offer

Congratulations!

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Good luck with your application to Room to Grow!